Melinda Blair PatersonSep 19, 20183 minWe need a chatWe were lying in bed about to go to sleep and Alistair turns to me and says: I think we need a chat. In the course of our five years together I have hardly h...
Alistair McKinnonMay 8, 20181 minAre you baffled by the behaviour of someone close to you?It can be confusing when others don't behave as we expect them to. Whether it's an intimate partner, a child, a parent, or a work colleague. To be honest, ...
Alistair McKinnonApr 15, 20152 minA woman's fear in intimate relationship. It's not what you think.I’m feeling totally blessed to be able to listen to my partner share what she believes to be the the most significant fear she has experienced in her relatio...
Alistair McKinnonMar 17, 20152 minIs you intimate relationship all you want it to be?Is your intimate relationship all you want it to be? Do you cherish your partner and know that you are loved deeply? Are you enjoying yourself? I care deeply...
Alistair McKinnonJan 15, 20151 minWho are you in intimate relationship with?Are you aware that there is more than just you and your partner in relationship? I did a little stocktaking and I can only conclude that most people are poly...
Alistair McKinnonJan 13, 20152 minWhat is the single most important success factor with your intimate relationship?I share my answer to this question from my own experience. For me… It’s a realization more than something you do. It’s easy to forget, to overlook, to by-pas...
Alistair McKinnonJan 9, 20152 minHave you ever sensed your partner spiralling into an emotional frenzy?Do you sometimes feel that the going gets tough in your intimate relationship? Is your partner haranguing you, berating you for not communicating, for not sh...
Alistair McKinnonJan 5, 20152 minWhat you can expect - the inside job on relationshipsRelationships have always intrigued me. In my early adult life I didn’t have much of an idea about relationships. Seemed like a mystery to me. Since then I h...