BEING IN RELATIONSHIP

Exploring Conscious Relationship

We are always in relationship; with ourselves, our belief systems, our emotional state, our thoughts, with others, maybe with a partner, with our culture, with our environment, our community and our planet. We define who we are by the relationships we have.

‘Being in Relationship’ is a statement of fact.

When we are children, we create the reality that we live from, based on how we interact and develop relationship with those that care (or don’t care) for us.

What if there was an easier way to be in relationship in your life? What would that look and feel like?

This blog explores the ways we can become consciously present and aware to our experience of being in relationship.

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Alistair

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I share my answer to this question from my own experience. For me…

It’s a realization more than something you do.

It’s easy to forget, to overlook, to by-pass.

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Have you ever sensed your partner spiralling into an emotional frenzy?

January 9, 2015

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